Saturday, September 22, 2012

One year and counting...


One year. What?

Hi beautiful people!  I have recently hit my one year in country mark. (August 18th) Crazy right!?!? It definitely doesn’t feel like it has been that long! I will be hitting my one year of service October 26th. You know what that means… you only have one very short year left to come visit me so get on it! Anyways, I have recently become VERY busy. The work has just started piling on. I am not sure if it is due to my inability to say “no” or just because I think I can be in 12 places at once… but it is happening! Here is a short recap of A FEW things I have done since my last post.

Deportes para la Vida
I went to a training came with 2 of my teenage girls for a youth initiative called Deportes para la Vida. It is an extension of the Grassroots Soccer program. We were trained to use basic drills from various sports to teach kids about HIV/AIDS prevention. It was a five day training, and we were going going going the whole time. We usually had a one hour break a day, and I chose to play soccer with the Dominican and Haitian staff during that time. BAD IDEA! They were REALLY good and I am so out of shape. I also brought poopy shoes so my knees were bothering but then when I was about to complain I realized they were playing barefoot. Relativity folks, relativity. Needless to say I shut my mouth and kept playing.
When I returned to my community I went to the school and asked if I could do the program with the high school kids during PE once a month. The director of the school told me that they did not have a PE teacher for the high school, and that during PE the kids just stand outside. Then the director went on to give me the position of PE teacher in the high school. I walked out dazed and confused. I have no idea how I walked in asking for a one hour a month commitment, and walked out having a full time, every day job (without the $) haha.
Deportes para la Vida

The whole camp...Deportes para la Vida
My girls and I
Corps Forum, Health Conference=Hurrication, and Training
I have been fortunate enough to get to go to the capital twice recently. The first time was for a health conference. I was only supposed to be there for 2 days and it turned into a week because we were put on standfast due to hurricane Isaac. That was interesting because we all only brought 1-2 days worth of clothes = lots of smelly volunteers crammed into a tiny hostel. The second was for committee weekend and the training for the new volunteers. I went and taught all the newbies about the health initiatives and what they will be doing the first three months in their site. It was very fun, and gave me a lot of time to reflect on the last year.
beach time

out after corps forum

braving Issac to give a proper goodbye to jenna

hurrication

Day with Laisha
Okay so one of the best days I have had recently was with my 6 year old BFF Laisha. During her summer vacation I let her go to a couple of my meetings in the surrounding communities with me. She loved it because it got her out of the house and she felt very grown up “helping” me with all the important work I am doing. Since school started up again, she keeps talking about how she misses working with me and taking the long walks to the other communities. So on a Saturday I invited her to take a long walk to the farthest colmado (tiny store) from our house. She got so excited and got all dressed up. When we were about to leave the house she handed me five pesos and asked me to protect it for her because it was all the money she had. I was a little confused, but I put it in my purse anyways. The three of us laisha, skeeter (my new dog) and I walked and talked and visited some other people on the way to the colmado. When we got there Laisha asked for her 5 pesos and bought us each a piece of candy. It was the cutest thing in the entire world! When I thanked her and told her she didn’t have to do that she responded by telling me that she wanted to share her money with her best friend. It melted my heart. We then went to the park, ate our candy, talked about life, and watched the world go by.
The girls also enjoy  “exercising” with me. It usually just turns into play time on my yoga mat… but we have good intentions.
Laisha and Skeeter

Laisha and Skeeter

Sharing our candy in the park.
Tat time. Thanks Mom!

This is what happens when I try to exercise.

... and this.

This is what Sharlin does when you ask her how Amanda exercises.

She loves looking at pics of herself.

How I spend my downtime: Laisha, Sharlin, and Skeeter.

Pregos
Recently two of my Escojo Mi Vida graduates (people I trained to be peer educators about safe sex, HIV, condoms, STDs, etc.) got pregos. One of them I was very sad about because it was an unplanned pregnancy, and the man who got her pregnant has daughters her age and is married. I have been trying to reach out to her because she needs all the support she can get right now, but she had to move to another community really far away due to her family having problems with the pregnancy. The other girl is one of my best students. She is extremely bright and really believes in Escojo and what it teaches. She got married when she was 12 years old, and she has managed to not get pregnant for 4 years (which is a miracle here). She recently decided that she was ready to be a mother (I think that her husband and his family were pressuring her). As her friend and mentor I could not judge the decision she made because she did exactly what I ask the kids to do in Escojo. She planned her pregnancy, and managed not to get pregnant during her first 4 years of marriage. She is also married and financially stable. However, I realized that she needs help managing her pregnancy. Her mother died 8 months ago, and her father lives in the US. She is now living in our campo because her husband is from here, and she is far from all of her family and friends. I realized she doesn’t have anyone to take her to the doctor or tell her what she can and cannot do while pregnant. I decided that I would be that person for her, and I took her for her first visit to the doctor. We had to leave at 5 am and it was a crazy mess at the clinic. We were there for 6 hours and all she got done was a blood test to prove she was pregnant and 30 folic acid pills. We have to go back again in a week for an ultrasound, and it will probably take even longer. Gracias a Dios I will be here for her entire pregnancy.

Of mice and woman….and spiders.
I have been traveling a lot for work recently, and my house has been empty = attack of the critters. I have seen multiple taranchulas and I can hear the rats running around at night. Needless to say I have been tucking my mosquito net in VERY tight at night to keep all the creepy crawlies out.
I also killed my very first taranchila. I usually let them live when I see them as long as they don’t give me an aggressive glare. If I decide they need to die I go find someone else to do it. However, this time it was the middle of the night and I had seen the exact same taranchala one week before. I realized it had almost doubled in size and it was a little too close to my clothes for my comfort (taranchula in clothes= worst morning surprise EVER). I killed it with my shoe and I was in awe of how much goopy stuff came out. It squirted a good foot away from the site o’ smush.
Site o' Smush

Work Update
I am still working on training the 6 groups of rural health promoters and 6 groups of teenage peer educators, I am now the PE teacher (kinda), every time I step into the school someone else asks me to give some kind of charla, and I recently started working as one of 3 volunteers one the national Escojo Mi Vida (teenage peer educators) program.

Random Work Photos:::






Future
-The second week in October I will be translating for the Geraghty Medical Mission in Santo Domingo (MACLA). I am a little nervous because my Spanish will definitely be put to the test… yikes!
I have decided to do a big art project in my community. It’s a long story but basically nobody wants to use the clinic (empty building) for meetings because of political reasons. I think it is really sad because it is a great space for the community. So my plan is to do 3 big murals on the walls facing the clinic with different community groups (one wall per group) and then to do a photo contest/project. All photos will be taken of community members by community members (using my camera… nerve racking). We will blow up the best photos and place them on the walls in the clinic. The rest we will get little prints made and sell them as a fundraiser (most people don’t have any photos of themselves). I plan on finishing this by the end of my service (long term project) and having a big art opening in the clinic. The hope is that by getting the community to work together on this project, and having the community as the subject matter, they will feel like the clinic is theirs and feel more comfortable using the space.
-Starting in January (after my much needed trip to the states for Christmas) I will be starting an exercise and nutrition program based loosely on the biggest looser. We will be concentrating on obese women with diabetes and/or hypertension.
-Oh yeah, next month I am also going to a training to learn how to make “stoves”. They are actually just an improved version of the fogons (open fire cooking)that the women use here. The improved version makes an inclosed space for the fire and a tube to ventilate the smoke. We will probably be starting this project in February after we find funding for it J

Well if you made it all the way to this point…. Congrats man. You deserve a pat on the back.

 OH WAIT ONE MORE THING! Congrats to my beautiful cousin and her dashing husband... they had baby boo number two! Sad Im not there but SO happy for you guys! Hudson, cookie is coming with hoho!


Until next time…

Sunday, July 8, 2012

The Vagina Shampoo Incident

Ok so here goes one of those "ohhhhh amanda that would only happen to you" stories...

As many of you know I have very sensitive skin and this usually means if I use certain kinds of lotions, shampoo, etc. I get weird reactions. Well I bought really cheap shampoo and conditioner (peace corps budget) and I got really really bad dandruff... like REALLY bad. Well Dominican woman feel they have the right... no the obligation to fix anything that is wrong with your appearance, that of your house, or really just do anything to your body or stuff that they feel they should. If they can see it, it is fair game for them to pick, probe, peel, or pop. My neighbor, Rafelina, has taken all things that have to do with my beauty on as a personal challenge (nails, hair, clothes, etc.) Therefore, she immediately started picking at my head. Ok. so when Dominican women get dandruff they ask a friend to use a rat-tail comb to scratch away and exfoliate their heads. However, Rafelina felt my problem called for something a little more drastic. She told me she had just bought some really good shampoo that completely got rid of her dandruff, and demanded that I let her wash my hair with it. So I go to her backyard and she dumps a bucket of water over my head and starts washing. She warns me (after the stuff is already on my head) that it may sting a little. Oh my, let me tell you... it didn't just sting a little bit... it BURNED like hell! My eyes were tearing up and it felt like my scalp was melting off. Of course this was when she started scratching my scalp with her fingernails. The unknown chemical then started seeping into the raw exposed skin that her fingernails were uncovering. When I couldn't take it anymore I told her to stop and give me the bottle. When I saw the title of the shampoo I am pretty sure my eyes bugged out of my head. The name..... Vaginol. I started frantically reading the label in Spanish, and thought "no, that can't be right" so I flipped the bottle over and read the english label. The english label confirmed that my spanish had not failed me, it was some kind of bactericidal vagina shampoo. Rafelina must have seen the horror in my eyes because she jumped forward and said "oh don't worry I don't use it for that!". I told her to wash it out because it hurt too bad, but the cold water only made it burn more. The tears just started streaming. Finally the pain started going away, and I couldn't help but laugh. a lot. I just feel really bad for the poor woman who actually uses that stuff in her lady bits... because if it hurt that bad on my head I can't imagine the pain it would cause down in the gumbo pot!

On another note, my outhouse/ letrine is finally finished!!! I can't even tell you how happy I am. I was using the restroom at my host families house, and lets just say there were a few too many people using it. It was also a little on the gross side, and I had no control over the cleaning of it. I found that I dreaded going in there and would hold it as long as possible or even go to a friends house. Now I can take care of business whenever my little heart desires. Plus, I can wash it down with bleach as often as I want :)


Also, Rafelina's (my neighbor) 5 year old daughter, Laisha, turned 6. We had a cute little birthday party with some of the other campo girls. It was a BIG deal because Rafelina went into town to buy a cake! The party was more catered to adults (sitting around eating and talking) and the kids seemed a little bored... so I brought out some stickers, bubbles, and a soccer ball and pretended like I was 5 again! 









Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Grads, Family, Diving and More!


Hello family and friends,
The last couple of months have been CRAZY. I have been really busy which means BIG blog post… so grab a Gatorade and a powerbar because this one will be a marathon. Here we go…

ON WORK:
First of all my teen sex ed group graduated from the course (Escojo Mi Vida). It was really exciting for them. They did a bunch of fundraisers so that they could get t-shirts made with their slogan and group name on them, and the graduation turned out to be a big production. We had teens from 3 other communities visit, a local news channel, 3 other peace corps volunteers, and a whole bunch of “powerful” leaders in my community. I was very sick, but luckily I had my friend James there to help out. (THANKS JAMES!!!)
            -Amanda moment- I made beautiful certificates for my graduates, and I had 4 people proof read them because lets face it… I have bad luck with that kind of stuff. After I gave them to my teens one of them came up to me to show me a very interesting typo… Under the line that I signed it was supposed to say “Licda. Amanda Appel Voluntaria de Cuerpo de Paz” but instead it said “Licda. Amanda Appel Voluntaria de CUERO de Paz”. Now cuero is a bad slang word in spanish that basically means slut. So I am now the slut of peace. Hahah. Luckily my teens were very supportive about it, but I was sooooo embarrassed. I later went through the entire certificate erasing one letter at a time. It turns out that was the ONLY letter that made another word (let alone a bad word). JUST MY LUCK!!!

My Nutrition and Cooking class also finished their course so we had a big potluck where everyone had to bring one healthy dish and explain to the group why it was healthy and how they cooked it. I also gave each participant a homemade cookbook with healthy recipies!

A woman explaining her dish

Oh and I also went on a Dominican talk show for the second time. I have never had problems with public speaking… but when you have to go on tv and speak in a different language it is a whole different story.


Lastly, I FINALLY got my VAST institutional grant! This means that I have lots of money to start 10 new groups. I will be starting 5 teen sex ed groups and 5 healthy homes groups in the surrounding communities. It is lots of work, but I am very excited about it J

ON DIVING:
I went back to the beautiful Las Galeras, Samana for my Advanced Scuba course. All of my diving buddies were there (the four of us have a diving club called SCUBA CORPS). We had a lot of fun, I love diving, and as always Diane and Paul at The Dive Academy were AMAZING. We did a light salvage dive (moving heavy stuff on the bottom of the ocean), a night dive, a deep dive, and we learned how to do reef checks. Now as most of you know, I am deathly afraid of fish. I have now pinpointed my fear, and I believe I am only afraid of fish when I cannot see them (aka. When I am on top of the water and I cant see what is beneath me). So lets just say the night dive was HORRIBLE. I couldn’t even move the first 10 minutes so my dive buddy Ellen had to pull me around and hold my hand (THANKS ELLEN!!!). After a while I got the hang of it, but I don’t think I will be CHOOSING to go on any more night dives. My favorite of all the dives was the deep dive! We went 40 meters deep, and it was GORGEOUS! I cant wait to do another one! My friend Hillary ran out of air so I had to share mine with her… it was a bonding experience ahahJ

night dive

scuba corps




ON LIFE:
I recently purchased an Olla de Horno (Dutch Oven) and I have been baking a lot of breads etc. My little neighbor, Laisha (5yr.), has decided she likes to help me so we have baking hour a few times a week. I have never been much of a baker…Lets just say we are learning TOGETHER!
I also had a kitten for 3 weeks. His name was Milo (because he looked like Milo from Milo and Otis) but I had to give him to another volunteer because my neighbors believe that if you inhale one cat hair you will die… this was a problem because the little girls wanted to play with the kitten all the time.
baking

baking

milo

ON VACATION:
MY FAMILY CAME TO VISIT ME!! My mom, dad, mike, charlotte, auntie linda, uncle doug, auntie pam, uncle greg, and auntie Kelly, and uncle gary, came to visit! We stayed in villas at a beautiful resort in Puerto plata. I had soooo much fun with them. We jumped off waterfalls at 27 Charcos, went to the top of a mountain on a gondola, swam, drank, partied, and relaxed in the sun. I was in heaven! Plus I had water and electricity for a week straight!! We also spend one day in my campo with my family. We roasted a pig over hot coals and ate lots of food. The American family also brought lots of gifts for me and my Dominican family! Needless to say, I have been very sad since they left, and I cant wait to see everyone in California over Christmas and New Years. THANK YOU AMERICAN FAMILY FOR AN AMAZING WEEK AND LOTS OF GIFTS!!!!
VIP pool

Auntie and I

27 Charcos 
Dancing on stage
VIP party

Mommy, daddy and I

Mommy n' Me

Lunch in my campo

Cooling off in our private pool